Nobody Saw This Coming! (Part Two)

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Four days back, I did something I haven’t done for years: speak on stage. In front of a bunch of people. Voluntarily! Well, it was my first book launch and I had no choice but to step up and speak. Ignoring my pounding heart and shaky knees, I delivered the speech I had been practicing for the past few days. Continue reading

Nobody Saw This Coming!

Surprised Face EmojiWhen I shared my book cover with you guys last month, I mentioned that my book would be out in February. I never gave a specific date as things were still undecided. The tentative launch day was February 25, but chances were high that it would be postponed (again). I hoped and prayed that the venue would be available this month. And just a few days back, I got to know that there was, in fact,  just one day – February 18. Talk about too soon! I couldn’t decide whether I should go for it or not.

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At Last! My Book Is Finally Complete!


February 22. That’s the day I sent my first pitch for a quote for my book. To Ashwin Sanghi of all people. I don’t know what got into me to aim so high right at the beginning, but I did. And come March 1, his quote was in the bag. I was elated – and a tad cocky. One down, nineteen more to go. This wasn’t going to be so tough after all. Continue reading

21 days to 2017: what will you change this new year? Here’s my list of 3.

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Whoosh! Yet another year has flown by! I can hardly believe it, can you? I had planned way too many things for 2016, which is probably why I’m feeling less than pleased as I review the year today. Well, 2017 is the year I don’t want to have this dreary feeling in the pit of my stomach, so I am going to keep it simple, doable and accountable. Starting today, here are the 3 changes I am going to be making in my life: Continue reading

On Keeping It Real And Going In A New Direction

Oh Well I Tried

For months now, I have been looking for an appropriate headshot to use for all my social media platforms – Twitter, Facebook, Google Plus, Pinterest, and LinkedIn. Now I have quite a few potential photos that I could use—and have been actively taking just for this very reason—but my search stopped as soon as this photo came into being. Continue reading

Conquering Stage Fright


Dry mouth. Pounding heart. Weak knees. All this and more would happen to me at the faintest possibility of a public speaking opportunity. In cases where it had simply to be done, I would rush through it –  tripping over words, barely audible. Little wonder then that it has been one of my biggest fears for years. Continue reading

Reaching Out To Influential People

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In Interview With The Publisher, I mentioned that my publisher had a brilliant suggestion for my book. Brilliant, yes. Easy, no! What did he suggest, you ask? That I reach out to influential people and get quotes on their personal experiences with misunderstood clichés.

At the time, I thought,” how hard can getting 20 quotes be? A lot of people will be interested in contributing.” Was I wrong! Continue reading

Who Am I To Write A Personal Development Book?

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Let’s get straight to the point: I am a regular person. Okay, maybe I am being my usual self-deprecating self, but I am certainly no behavioral psychologist, scientist or expert of any sort.

What I am is an individual who has seen how easy it is for us humans to fall in line with what we are taught, without ever questioning why.  And I say this not as some high and mighty spectator, but as an old-time performer. It was not too long ago when I used to jump through hoops. Hoops that were set up by someone I didn’t even know. Continue reading

Interview With The Publisher


Hours after publishing my last post, Prashant Karhade, the co-founder of APK Publishers, asked me if we could meet over the weekend to discuss my book. I excitedly told him a yes.

Turns out my good feeling was legit. Not only did he like the book, he was even ready to publish it as is. He said that unlike most first-time authors’ books, this one was finished. However, he had a brilliant suggestion which I said I would only be glad to implement. We had a long chat and he promised to get in touch with me by next week.

I am over the moon and can’t believe this is happening to me. It’s hard enough to find a publisher nowadays, let alone a good one like APK.  All I can say is, they were definitely worth the wait.